Realize it or not every person seeks perfection in every area of life. We may never find perfection in all those things we want, but we get as close as we can. If I buy a new car, I want it to be perfect. If I can’t afford a new one, I want one nearly perfect. In marriage you will never find the perfect yoke fellow. But be encouraged God is able to bring into your life someone who seems in your eyes to be nearly perfect in every way!
There are two decisions that nearly every man or woman will face in life: with whom do I spend eternity and with whom do I spend time. More precisely how do you choose a Christian yoke fellow for eternity and time.
When you decide to put your trust in Jesus as your personal Savior the issue of eternity is settled. You have found the perfect yoke fellow. When you choose the one to marry the issue of time is settled. Our focus here is to provide guidelines for marriage and the true yoke fellow. What do you look for in a life mate.
Question one: is this person a Christian? If the answer is no, you should look further. The Bible is very clear “ Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness …..” (2nd Corinthians 6:14) If the answer to question one Is yes then go to question two.
Question two: would you be interested in studying the Bible with me? If the answer is yes, the two of you should read and study the Bible together. If the answer is no, perhaps you should look further for your true yoke fellow.